03-29-2016, 06:46 AM
Building a home starts with the head of the family, that is, the man in the house. The greatest assignment of building and maintaining a peaceful home is committed to the man in the house. It is the man that has the required maturity and capacity to bear, endure, persevere, tolerate and love in the house. Home is so powerful that every man must work daily for its keep-up.
Many homes have collapsed today as a result of the fact that the man does not possess some attributes that can help keep a home in peace. Such attributes as rightly illustrated above include tolerance, long-term patience, perseverance, and love. The only way for a man to achieve this is to treat the woman as a younger sister at home. The simple mentality is that a man can always and easily overlook or forgive a younger sister if she does anything wrong. Handling a woman that way will help the man a lot. It is part of the weak points in a woman. A man must understand his woman such that the children will grow up and develop the mentality of a peaceful home. It all depends on the man in the house.
Building a child like the walls of a building is a great step in successfully building a home. Children benefit greatly from this. The patience of a man cannot be too much. It cannot be overemphasized when it comes to dealing with a woman in order to build a home successfully. When a woman provokes her husband, it does not matter if the husband reacts or not, but things must just be done only for the sake of building a peaceful home. This is the kind of patience and perseverance a man must learn to exercise in his marriage so that the children can be happy and be in their right state of mind when they are in school. As they say, charity begins at home. As a teacher too, I have personally observed that when a child looks so dull and inactive in the school, the possible cause of that kind of a mood has always been due to one issue or the other between the parents at home. This affects a child mentally and it's capable of jeopardizing the academic pursuit of the child. So, the fruit of having patience and perseverance with the women at home is great as it would help the children grow up in an atmosphere of peace and joy. It has a positive effect on their studies.
Parents must come to realise that the children of nowadays are so intelligent that everything that is going on in the house is within their reach and understanding. They can only pretend before you as if they don't see anything. So, if clashes, disputes, fight and quarrels occur daily between the parents at home, parents should get it clear that the children are already watching and learning something that is capable of destroying their lives in the future. Therefore, whatever may be the likely cause of dispute in the marriage, wisdom should be applied to ensure that peace reigns. Organizing a home this way will help a man build his home successfully and the future of the children too will be great.
Parents should investigate properly about a school before registering their wards. This is another great factor to be seriously considered in trying to build up a home. In determining the school where a child should be enrolled, it is important to find out whether the teachers in the school are teaching with passion or not so that a gifted child can easily be discovered. So, building a child does not end at home alone, but also extends to the school. A gifted child must be trained by a passionate trainer in full capacity and in good faith so that the child's potential can be maximized. When these children fulfil in life, the parents will sit back and start enjoying the fruits of their labour.
Finally, inviting God into a home will guarantee that the home will stand forever because He is the solid rock. So, if God is present in a home, it means such a home has made the Almighty God its foundation and will never collapse.